There should be a great deal more understanding as to why there are variations of a language perpetuated by bungled grammar, creative spelling, and tha malformed phrase.

I learned to read and write tremendously late in life. There are a variety of reasons for this. While I don't consider myself lazy or stupid, I do know that it takes much effort to scratch or type a phrase that doesn't have an error.

I learned words by hearing them. I spell what I hear. With the lazy tongue of left coast Americans, there is no ready distinction between 'our' and 'are'. So if I'm tired, busy, or otherwise more concerned with I am saying than how I am saying, I must beg your parden, because I will rarely write correctly the nuances that make language such a pain.