Oh, Noel...so sorry!

...but after you reset your bearings I think there are still things to be accomplished in life.

...and there always remains the potential for a rise like the phoenix from the ashes for you and your kids. Surely more odd and usual twists and turns in life have been known to happen.

...which probably doesn't make you feel any better right now.

...be sure to treat yourself right. Eat right, sleep properly, get sunlight, exercise, and take time for yourself as able. Things will work out ok in the end. Not that they will be the same, but they will be bearable again before long.

-Steve